you think you know what is best for me.
but you don't know what makes me happy.
i'm too hardheaded and stubborn to take your advice.
especially when it is in the form of a lecture.
so while i appreciate the thought,
you should stop.
i'd rather be happy now with a chance of misery later
than miserable now with a chance of happiness later.
just be my friend and support me,
in happiness and in heartache.
isn't that what friends are for?